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Saying that I am a reluctant swimmer would be generous, Charles. I used to swim when I was little and I remember that it used to be fun. It wasn't reluctant back then. Much like Zoey, I often was guilty of entering into the lanes of other swimmers. Then I swam again in my late teens, just before college. I remember making big progress. I'd swim everyday for a few months. And then I stopped, again, for college. More recently, I just couldn't bring myself to swim to cross a river. More than the current, it was the fish that scared me, I think. I surely miss that childlike confidence that I used to have while swimming.

Thanks for this piece, Charles. It triggered lots of good memories from my childhood.

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Apr 14Liked by Charles Schifano

Beautifully written, Charles. Brought back memories of swimming in college, with friends far more advanced than I was. And the thrill of finally developing a decent flip turn.

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Apr 13Liked by Charles Schifano

I can’t comment on this until I order new goggles and a cap for myself. How I miss swimming and the pool! Even though I haven’t swam laps in years (decades?), I also continue to experience the void of purpose when swimming casually to “cool off” or “hang out.”

As I read the words, your pacing reminds me of a long distance swim in which the strokes and laps tick by at a steady, regular stride that must go one lap or sentence at a time.

This is beautiful writing and thank you for the open reflection on your experience in the water. I’m glad we are swimmers.

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Apr 12Liked by Charles Schifano

I loved the feelings you gave me as I read this. Though I am a reluctant swimmer, I enjoy the water. But I feel more confident when I can touch the bottom. As long as the bottom is touchable - no seaweed or sliminess please. Yes, I prefer pools. I took my daughter to swimming lessons when she was a baby, and wanted to be the one holding her in the pool, in the hopes the baby instructor's lessons would wear off on me. But I think our grand-daughter will take lessons with GrandDad. He grew up on the beach and exudes confidence in the water - I want the new little one to love it as much as he does. I think my lack of confidence affected our daughter's lessons. She feels the same as I about water. I guess I am jealous of my husband's aquatic confidence.

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